TEACH YOUR CHILD THE “WHY” OF SAVING

We have a very low success rate of saving in the United States.  According to the Wall Street Journal, savings fell to 3.6 percent of personal income in the first quarter of this year.  We have to start teaching our children about saving when they are young.  The key is to make saving a habit and I start these lessons when a child is as young as 3 years-old.

Begin by explaining to your children that we save in order to get things we want in the future, but also to get things we will need in the future.  It's difficult to think about the future when you're young because most children think of the future as next week, after dinner or five minutes from now. A three year-old is not going to understand the concept of long-term saving, neither is a ten year-old.

In “Money Doesn't Grow on Trees” I explain that saving means putting something away in a safe place to be used, if necessary, at another time.  I suggest having your kids make a list of things you can save besides money.  Squirrels save nuts to eat during winter; most of us save empty bottles and cans for recycling.

In my Allowance System for Children it is a rule that they save some of their money for long-term.  With your help, they have to decide what they are saving for.  I like to suggest saving for college. A good savings plan begins with setting goals.  Talk to your children about what some of their longer term goals could be: a house, a car, other large-ticket items.  Explain that it takes planning and unless you think about these expensive items when you are younger, you probably won't have the money to obtain them later on.

Explain that a goal should be realistic and obtainable.  If you know that you and your children will never be able to save enough for a private college, don't set that as a goal.  The goal should be state school tuition but acknowledge the possibility that your child could get a scholarship to that private university.

Remember, at this point, they don't have to plan out their entire life but it is important to set aside money each month.  Financial planners recommend putting aside 10-15 percent  of one's net pay for savings.  The point is to create this habit of saving while the children are young and “pay yourself first”.  That means putting your own money aside each time your receive it for your savings goals.  Explain what college costs today and what they could be when they are actually ready to go.  Make sure they understand how prices rise.  They need to understand real budgets, real money issues and what it will take to save for real goals.